Hello! I’m Paula, a certified Parent Coach based in Bloomington, Minnesota, and I’m so glad you’ve found your way here. If you’re navigating the complex, rewarding, sometimes bewildering journey of parenthood and seeking support, you’re in the right place.
My Journey to Parent Coaching
As a parent to eight children myself – four adults launched and four still under my roof – I know firsthand the immense joys and the very real challenges that come with raising human beings. I’ve celebrated the triumphs, learned from the mistakes, and deeply understand that feeling of trying to measure up to expectations, including your own. My core value has always been sharing knowledge and experiences so others can thrive. That passion, combined with seeing the profound need for support while helping establish resources for LGBTQIA+ teens and their caregivers, led me directly to parent coaching. Witnessing families navigate complex situations solidified my commitment: I never want any parent to feel like a failure simply because they lack the support or understanding they need.
Empathy, Understanding, and a Safe Space for Parents
My experiences, including my own journey as a parent and my work supporting families through gender transition, haven’t just taught me about specific challenges; they’ve cultivated a deep empathy for the universal struggles all parents face. I understand the pressure of comparison, the frustration of unsolicited advice, and the weight of internalized self-doubt that can make parenting support feel essential.
This understanding, combined with my professional ICF coach training, compels me to help. It fuels my commitment to creating a truly safe, non-judgmental space – a cornerstone of my parent coaching services – where you feel seen, heard, and accepted exactly as you are. Clients often reflect that they experience a “calming demeanor” and find me an “engaged listener” in our sessions. Whether you’re in the Twin Cities area or connecting virtually, my goal is to provide that container for growth.
My Approach: Empowering Parents Through Connection & Boundaries
I believe the wisest answers lie within you. My role isn’t to prescribe solutions, but to partner with you as your parent coach. My coaching style focuses on fostering autonomy – yours and your child’s – and establishing healthy parenting boundaries, which I truly believe are game-changers in family life. I often use metaphors to help spark new understanding on your thinking journey toward better family communication and connection.
Our work together is typically structured over a three-month container of support, meeting regularly. But the real magic often happens between sessions, through the insights gained and the “self-prescribed homework” you identify to move forward.
Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
I can’t guarantee all your problems will disappear, but I deeply believe in this process. My hope and commitment as your coach is that if you put in the work within our partnership, you will gain a better understanding of how to be the parent you truly want to be, navigating your unique journey with more confidence, clarity, and connection.
A Little More About Me
Outside of coaching, I’m a bit of what I jokingly call a “serial hobbyist.” I find immense joy in the process of learning something new and putting it into action – a curiosity that I bring into my coaching practice!
Ready to Connect & Explore Parent Coaching?
If you’re ready to explore how parent coaching can support you in creating more joy and connection in your family life, I invite you to take the next step. Let’s see if we’re a good fit.